We are often advised to live in the moment. Today I was pondering this advice and the more I thought (dangerous, I know!) the more I came to the conclusion that this is dangerous advice indeed. Why you ask? If you live 'in the moment' you are completely absorbed in the experience and unencumbered by the future consequences or possibilities. Is this such a good idea? To not consider the outcomes of a given action? And is it really possible once you have become an adult?
Living in the moment, in its purest sense, to my way of thinking is foolish. It is a childlike behaviour. Appropriate when young and lacking experience. As one matures and learns, you hope that one would recognize potential pitfalls and choose more wisely than living absolutely in the moment. That being said.... I think we all could learn something from kids. Part of the reason I love 6 yr olds and under. They appreciate the simplicity of joy and happiness. They enjoy that spark of fun that occurs at odd times. Are unafraid to have a good belly laugh when something strikes them as hilarious. As adults I think we spend to much time considering all angles.
My conclusion? Living in the moment is a saying that when examined is not to be followed in its purest sense. The saying is one that should spark thoughtfulness, and prompt us to find our own inner joy in the small things. To open our eyes to the beauty surrounding us, the good conversation with a friend that touches your heart, the warmth of a dog snuggled against you trustingly, or a child hugging and kissing you saying "I love you Mumma". If we can better capture these moments, slow down and live them when they happen, experience them fully; then I think we are experiencing what we are advised in "Live in the Moment".
